You Thought You Knew Each Other.
You dated. You got engaged. You said your vows.
But somewhere between the honeymoon and now, money started pushing you apart.
Have you wondered:
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Will we ever get on the same page?
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Is this just who we are?
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Did we make a mistake?
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Why does every money conversation end up here?
You're not alone. And you're not broken. You're just missing something nobody ever taught you.
Money isn't actually what you're fighting about.
It's about fear.
It's about broken trust.​
It's about values that were never aligned to begin with.
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One of you grew up watching money chaos. The other never had to think about it.
One of you is afraid there won't be enough. The other is afraid of being controlled.
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None of these are character flaws. They're just gaps. And they're exactly the gaps we work through together.
This is more fixable than you might think.
Most couples who come to me have been fighting about money for months, sometimes years. They've either tried everything they can think of, or they've tried ignoring it and hoping it gets better on its own. Neither of those ways works.
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What they haven't tried was getting to the root of it.
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When you understand what's actually driving the conflict -- the fear, the values, the broken trust underneath -- everything changes. The fights don't just get less frequent. They stop feeling like attacks and start feeling like problems you can solve together.
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That's what this work does.
And it works for both of you. Even if your husband isn't sure he needs a coach. Even if you're not sure he'll ever come around. Part of my job is creating a space where both of you feel safe enough to show up fully. And in my experience, the husbands who walk in most skeptical often leave most transformed.
Here's how we get there together.
Every couple starts in a different place. But the path forward follows the same three steps.
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Sessions are virtual and one hour long -- no commute, no rearranging your schedule. Most couples begin to feel a meaningful difference within the first two sessions.
Understand
Build
Flourish
Before we touch a budget, we get to the root. Through your couples assessment and honest conversation, you'll each finally see what's actually driving the fights: the fears, the history, and the values that were never aligned to begin with.
Then we build your plan together. A shared vision, a spending plan you both believe in, and a new way of making money decisions that doesn't leave one of you feel steamrolled.
Finally, we make it stick. The habits and rhythms you build become yours for good, so the peace doesn't depend on me being in the room.
What changes when we work together
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The money arguments stop
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You finally understand why you fight about money, and so does your spouse
- You stop dreading money conversations and start having them without the blowups
- You make big decisions together without one spouse steamrolling the other
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Your marriage becomes something you're both genuinely proud of
Find the program that's right for your marriage.
Every program begins with a comprehensive couples assessment -- your money personalities, your conflict patterns, and the values underneath both. No guesswork. No generic advice. Just clarity.
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You aren't buying a number of sessions. We meet as long as it takes to get you your outcome, and that outcome is guaranteed.
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Oh, and I donate 20% of every enrollment to help provide clean drinking water to communities around the world. Learn more here.
A Taste of Peace
For when you just need the fighting to stop.
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Save the marriage you stood at the altar and promised before God, because money fights end more marriages than anything else. The couples who wait often wait too long.
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Quiet the voice that whispers "maybe I married the wrong person," and replace it with the certainty that you chose right, you're just up against something you were never taught to handle.
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Stop having the same fight over and over, and finally get to what's underneath it all: the fear, the history, the unspoken needs...so you understand each other instead of hurting each other.
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Feel the relief of knowing this program is your turning point: the moment your marriage started getting better instead of steadily getting worse.​​
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What's included:
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Your comprehensive couples assessment: money personalities, conflict patterns, and the values underneath
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Weekly private sessions, with exercises between them
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Direct access to me when things flare up between sessions
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Typically 2-3 months.
A Life of Peace
Stop the fights for good and build a lasting marriage you're both proud of.
Everything in A Taste of Peace, plus
everything it takes to make the peace last.
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Don't just stop the current fight; end the cycle for good, so the same argument stops resurfacing every time money gets tight or a big decision comes up.
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Build the marriage you pictured when you said "I do" -- united, on the same page, pulling in the same direction instead of against each other.
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Develop the actual tools, habits, and rhythms that keep you connected for the rest of your life, long after our work together ends.
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Replace the fear that things will always be like this, with the quiet confidence that you can handle anything money throws at you... together.​​
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Build a shared vision for your future so exciting that money becomes the thing that moves you toward your dreams instead of the thing that tears you apart.
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What's included:
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Everything in A Taste of Peace, plus:
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Your complete money system built together: spending plan, debt payoff, savings, and the goals behind them
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A money-meeting rhythm you'll run for the rest of your marriage
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A decision framework for the big stuff: house, cars, career moves, giving
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Your shared vision plan, the future you're both actually excited to fund
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And a post-program check-in after we finish, to make sure the peace held
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Typically around 6 months.
A Legacy of Peace
For couples who want peace today and prosperity for generations to come.
Everything in A Life of Peace -- plus everything it takes to build wealth, protect your family, and leave a legacy that outlives you.
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Become the couple others look at and say "I want what they have" -- the marriage your children learn from, and your friends quietly wish they had.
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Build real wealth together, with a clear strategy for investing, growing, and protecting what you earn -- so money stops being a worry and starts being a tool.
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Make sure that if the unthinkable happens, the one you love is protected and prepared -- not left scrambling through paperwork and decisions alone.
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Give generously and intentionally to your family, your church, and the causes God puts on your heart -- as part of a plan, not an afterthought.
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Walk this road with me beside you for years, not months -- through check-ins, annual reviews, and the kind of support that makes sure you never drift back to where you started.
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What's included:
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Everything in A Life of Peace, plus:
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Your investing and wealth-building strategy, built around your shared vision
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Protection for your family: insurance review plus wills and estate coordination, so the unthinkable never leaves your spouse scrambling
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Your giving plan, so generosity becomes strategy instead of afterthought
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And two years of check-ins and annual reviews after active coaching ends
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Active coaching typically 8-9 months.
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To give each Legacy couple everything you deserve, I take on no more than 8 Legacy couples at a time.
Before you look at any numbers, think about what this conflict is already costing you.
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Not in dollars, though divorce alone can cost tens of thousands before you even begin splitting a life in two. The real cost is far more expensive.
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It's the weight you carry into every money conversation, knowing how it's going to end before it even starts. It's the distance between you that grows a little wider with every argument. It's the dreams you've stopped talking about because talking about them doesn't even seem realistic anymore. It's lying next to the person you love and still feeling completely alone.
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And underneath all of it is something deeper still. God designed marriage to make two people one. Not two roommates managing separate money lives. Not two opponents negotiating a truce. One. Every money fight drives a wedge into the exact place He meant to make you whole, and left alone, that wedge only goes deeper. The trust erodes. The resentment settles in. The oneness you stood at the altar and promised to each other and to God gets harder to feel with every passing month.
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Now picture the other direction.
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A marriage where money is something you build with, not something you brace for. Where you make decisions as one, because you finally think as one. Where your children grow up watching and learning from two people who refused to give up on what God joined together. Where the very thing that almost broke you becomes the testimony that draws other couples back from the edge.
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That is what's actually on the table here. Not a budget. Not a program. The oneness God designed your marriage to have, the future the two of you once dreamed about, and everything that flows from it for the people who come after you.
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Whatever these programs cost, it is a fraction of what this is already costing you, and barely a whisper against what you stand to gain.
My money-back guarantee
Finish the program and do the work. If you and your spouse still aren't navigating money meaningfully better than when we started, I'll refund everything you've paid.
We'll check in at key milestones along the way, so neither of us is waiting until the end to find out whether this is working.